Water your Relationships with LOVE

Do you want to have happy relationships?
Your relationships are just like plants.
You need to water them daily or they die.
For relationships, their water is love.
If you don’t give your relationships enough time, or attention,
or respect, or kindness, all of which are expressions of love
and they too will die.
Happy relationships don’t just happen. You make them happen.
How to create happy relationships?
Here is the secret: Deliberately nurture them.
The key word is “deliberate.”


For almost 1 year and 7 months, I already experienced a happy relationship with my partner. He becomes a good partner, a good companion and a good listener. I really feel his presence every time we are together. He is kind and a loving person. He really shows what he really feels.

In my part, if I described my self personally, I’m a loving person also. I always show my love and my care on him. I want him to feel that I really love him too.

Now a day, “Same Sex Relationships” is rampant to our country. According to Wikipedia, a same-sex relationship is a relationship between two persons of the same gender and can take many forms, from romantic and sexual, to non-romantic close relationships. The term is mainly associated with gay and lesbian people. In their essential psychological respects, these relationships are regarded as equivalent to heterosexual relationships.

If we go to other places of our country, we could see that both males and even females are kissing in the street or even they are holding their hands while walking. But in our case with my partner, we are different from them. If we are on public, we are not showy for the reason that we don’t want to hear any criticism from other people. We respect ourselves and we respect also peoples surround us.
I know that this kind of relationship will never last. As I experienced with my partner, we were always quarrelling for many reasons. So, one day last June 27, 2011 when we were at the plaza of GenSan, both of us decided to stop our relationship and continue our relationship as Best Friend. We become my best friend for more than 4 and half years. After decided it, I think I experienced 1 week of longing because of what happened. But later on, with the help of God, I was able to accept it and continue my life as a single.
As I read this book of Bo Sanchez entitled “Don’t Worry, Be Happy!” I’ve learned the four powerful steps of creating happy relationships in your life:
Step 1: Create patterns of connection
Step 2: Be Kind.
Step 3: Prioritize people over money.
Step 4: Make other successful.
We’ll go through each step one by one. . . .

Don’t lost hope and I will assure you that you could able to build a happy relationship with you partner. And always put in your mind, “Deliberately nurture them”.